How to Find LGBTQ+ Friendly Wedding Venues in San Diego

May 28, 2025

Planning a wedding is exciting. But for many LGBTQ+ couples, it can also feel uniquely stressful.

Between managing logistics and crafting a celebration that truly reflects your love, you shouldn’t have to wonder whether your chosen venue will affirm who you are. At BRICK in San Diego, we believe every couple deserves a wedding site that not only accepts but celebrates their love. Our team makes inclusivity part of our DNA—so you can focus on saying “I do.”

Two brides seated in front of a colorful wedding backdrop
Photo: Tiffany Le Visuals

What Does “LGBTQ+ Friendly” Actually Mean?

Being an LGBTQ+ friendly wedding venue San Diego goes far beyond merely allowing same-sex ceremonies. Look for venues that:

  • Use gender-neutral language throughout their contracts and marketing (e.g., “partner” instead of “bride/groom” by default)

  • Employ inclusive staff who are comfortable with all pronouns and relationship dynamics

  • Show real representation in their portfolios—photos of past LGBTQ+ weddings, testimonials, or styled shoots

  • Demonstrate active advocacy, such as sponsoring Pride events or partnering with local queer-owned vendors

Two brides excited after their wedding ceremony at BRICK
Photo: 147 Photos

Ways to Spot an Inclusive Venue (Besides Googling)

  1. Social Media Representation

    • Scan Instagram or Facebook for images of real LGBTQ+ couples celebrating at the space. Check for consistent use of inclusive hashtags like #SanDiegoPride or #LoveIsLove.

  2. Vendor Referrals

    • Ask your wedding planner or photographer for venue recommendations that have a proven track record with LGBTQ+ weddings. Queer-owned businesses often know the most welcoming spaces.

  3. Online Reviews

    • Look on The Knot, WeddingWire, or Google Reviews for testimonials specifically from LGBTQ+ couples—did the venue staff respect pronouns? Was the ceremony seamless?

  4. Direct Questions to the Venue

    • Can you share examples of past LGBTQ+ weddings you’ve hosted?”

    • Do you offer gender-neutral restroom facilities?”

    • What training does your team receive around LGBTQ+ cultural competency?”

    • Which LGBTQ+ vendors do you recommend or have on your preferred list?”

Two grooms sharing their first dance
Photo: Tim Otto Photo

Our Commitment to the LGBTQ+ Community at BRICK

At BRICK, we’re more than just an LGBTQ+ friendly wedding venue San Diego; we’re proud allies and community partners.

  • Celebrated Weddings: Over the past two years, we’ve hosted several LGBTQ+ weddings, featuring everything from intimate elopements to grand ballroom celebrations.

  • Staff Inclusivity: Every member of our team is committed to inclusivity, from pronoun etiquette to understanding diverse family structures.

  • Inclusive Vendor Network: We maintain a curated list of San Diego’s LGBTQ+-owned and allied vendors—including florists, bakers, DJs, and officiants—so you know your entire wedding team is supportive.

Local LGBTQ+ Resources for San Diego

  • San Diego Pride: Join one of the nation’s largest Pride celebrations in June and July. From the Pride Parade and Festival downtown to the Trans* Pride Picnic, there’s a wealth of ways to connect with the community! Learn more

  • San Diego LGBT Community Center: Offering resources, support groups, and networking events for LGBTQ+ couples. Visit their site.

  • San Diego LGBT Chamber of Commerce: Find trusted queer-owned wedding vendors and business partners. Explore members.

Schedule a Tour With Us

Ready to see how BRICK can bring your vision to life? We invite you to schedule a private tour of our flexible event space, chat with our inclusive staff, and get a firsthand feel for why so many LGBTQ+ couples choose us. Contact us today to book your visit—and let us help you plan a celebration as vibrant and authentic as your love.

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